FAQ

I don’t have much experience with SM, can I come to you?

Response: Yes, I’ll introduce you, within your limits, to a SM play and I’ll build it up gently with the play elements which trigger you. And like that I’ll let you experience in a responsible and soft way, step by step, various SM elements so you will enjoy the session very much. A new world will open for you! I own many toys and I have many creative ideas and I’ll use my experience with both beginners and advanced to give you an intense experience. I will check your body language, maintain eye contact and always recognize your limits and wishes. As slave you should enjoy a SM session.

Can I have sex with you?

Response: No, I’m your Mistress. That doesn’t mean that with the right click and flow an erotic reward can follow in the session, but sometimes things should be a surprise. You can also consider getting a second girl in for extra eroticism.

Do you also receive couples?

Response: Sure, but it also depends on the play location and its rules. I can of course come as escort to a hotel room or suite rented by you. I don’t visit people in their homes.

Do you do 24/7 sessions with personal slaves?

Response: No, it doesn’t suit my private life. I only receive slaves on a commercial base for sessions on suitable locations. BDSM is a hobby of mine, but I do it purely commercially. A slave shall always have to pay a financial compensation to get play time from me.

What about hygiene?

Response: All my toys and play things are being cleaned and desinfected after use. Also my personal hygiene is very important to me. In return I appreciate it very much that your personal hygiene before a session is tiptop, it’s much nicer for both of us that way. With anal play it’s desirable you already anally flushed yourself clean and/or take care of your eating pattern (light food).

I read a lot about taking a slave anally by a Mistress, am I homo if I want that?

Response: No, that of course is nonsense and short-sightedness of stupid people. When a woman gets horny by anal sex she’s certainly not lesbian? Gays fucking anally is logical because there is no other way to fuck and it also stimulates both the penis and anus. It’s all about stimulation of erogenous zones like a woman can give head to a man, but also a man can suck a man. With anal sex your anus gets stimulated but also your prostate. That’s an intense and horny feeling. Fisting is a heavy way of stimulation, but it can also lead to a sensational orgasm. There exist even anal orgasms where you don’t come with your penis. Besides there is the psychological aspect of being submissive when fucked by hand, foot, or strap-on. That’s why it happens a lot in BDSM. Don’t be fooled by what society thinks. There is still a taboo on sex and people have judgements mostly on things they don’t understand. With sex you mustn’t think too much, but dare to let yourself go and enjoy. Sex can be different than orientation. It’s about lust, letting go, being someone else for a short time, enjoying like animals. I don’t judge anything and will take any fantasy seriously, as long as it happens on a voluntary base between grown-ups and there are no animals involved. If a fantasy doesn’t suit me or if I can’t or don’t want to execute it I’ll mention it honestly.

Do you do WAP dates?

Response: I don’t use drugs or alcohol myself, I have to stay sharp during a session and play well with the right energy to assure the safety of you as a slave. If you want to be under the influence of something that’s your responsibility, but I don’t accept drunken men.

You are of German nationality, do you also speak Dutch?

Response: Yes, I lived and worked in Holland for years and speak Dutch fluently during the session, besides as a German citizen I speak German fluently of course, but we can also communicate well in English.

Do you have personal favorites in the BDSM play?

Response: Sure, it depends on my mood but also on what kind of slave or session is present. Teasing a slave in a soft erotic way is one of my strong points, and then see what a slave can handle more. I can then test his reception for pain or what he can handle anally. But also mindplay or dare to express yourself or show yourself without shame to me can be interesting plays. My preferences for anal play are strap-ons, inflatable buttplugs, fisting or with my foot, besides needle play, body or foot worshipping of me, bi play with more slaves or Master, sounding of the urethra, nipple torture, candle wax and CBT!